Relative Truth

One of the things i've learned in the latter part of life is that people lie. I grew up with honest parents who really valued honesty and instilled this quality in the foundation of my upbringing. And other than little white lies, i've never told a major lie to my parents. I'm not afraid to claim responsibility of my actions. Also most of my really close friends know i'm not very good at lying unless for a good cause or if I really try to. I have problems even telling the people at Starbucks a fake name. Being misunderstood is one of the most annoying things ever because I hate having people believe in the wrong thing. In dramas and TV shows, misunderstandings are what keep the shows going on, but I cringe every time I see it happening. And as people we unconsciously tend to expect others to do what we ourselves would do. So I tend to trust what people say to be the truth. Some may call that being gullible, but I call it being trusting.

The craziest thing though is that sometimes people may think they are telling the truth, when in fact they're lying. They may not even be aware that they're lying. They tell the same lie over and over in hopes of it becoming the truth someday. And they're afraid to admit it because then they'll no longer be able to believe in the lie they've been telling themselves.

The truth is relative.

My Favorite

"Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong." (2 Corinthians 12:9-10)

Yes

Came across this on my newsfeed facebook when my friend (Emma) posted this on someone's wall, totally stalker-esqe I know. haha But it's good stuff and I just want to share this with all y'all.


“Don’t be afraid to be a fool. Remember, you cannot be both young and wise. Young people who pretend to be wise to the ways of the world are mostly just cynics. Cynicism masquerades as wisdom, but it is the farthest thing from it. Because cynics don’t learn anything. Because cynicism is a self-imposed blindness, a rejection of the world because we are afraid it will hurt us or disappoint us. Cynics always say no. But saying yes begins things. Saying yes is how things grow. Saying yes leads to knowledge. “Yes” is for young people. So for as long as you have the strength to, say yes.”
— Stephen Colbert




Let's learn to say yes to more things, yes? 


(Unless it's drugs or prostitution or something, the only thing growing from saying yes to those are debt and STDs, just sayin') 

Little Affairs Of The Heart

"But none of these really satisfy, and so we find ourselves trying to fill the remaining emptiness with our little indulgences (we call them 'bad habits'. Brent Curtis calls them our 'little affairs of the heart.' They are what we give our hearts away to instead of giving them to the heart of God."

"Little affairs of the heart" I like that. It aligns with one of my viewpoints. I came upon realization my Sophomore year of college that my relationship with God wasn't healthy/right if I was wanting other things, whatever they might be. If I was in a good relationship with God, why would I seek out for other things and not Him?

Anyways, that quote is an excerpt from the book Captivating  by John & Stasi Eldredge. I've actually had this book since my freshman year in college. Our small group bought the book together and were supposed to read it. It about "Unveiling the mystery of a woman's soul." I read the first chapter and tossed it aside regretting that I spent $22.99 on this hardcover book. If you read the flap jacket of the book it starts off "Why do little girls love to dress up in twirling skirts? Why do they dream of a day their prince will come and together they will live in a great adventure? Because that is the heart God set within every woman. That is the role she was created to play--to be a valiant and beautiful woman whose life changes the world."

Can you see why I tossed the book aside? Kinda cheesy huh? I could not identify with that at all and thought that it had more cheese than nachos. Growing up, I never fantasized about my wedding, or that some prince would come save me and we'd live happily ever after. Maybe it was because I was too busy digging worms up after school with my guy friend and putting the worms in cups meant to take home but left on the tables at school, or maybe it was I was too busy throwing my baby doll in the tree to help knock my friend's Barbie that was stuck in the tree since we were seeing how high we could throw them. I'm not saying I was a complete tomboy as a child, I did play with Barbies and took ballet and jazz but I just imagined myself a little more independent and stronger than to dream of a rescue from a prince. I think I just never thought I needed to be rescued, which kinda explains why Mulan was my favorite Disney princess movie while growing up (okay so she's not an official Disney princess but whatever! in my heart she is! haha). But anyways, fast foward some years I finally decide to give the book more of a chance (after skipping the first couple chapters) and i'm glad I did because it's more than that. And while i'm still reading it, probably also from a more mature point of view, but I can definitely see some valid points and actually relate to them. And i'm learning. I guess i'm more of a girl than I thought. haha

So just thought i'd share. Nice to see my $22.99 isn't completely wasted. haha

How To Build A Ship

There are red ships and blue ships.
But the best kind of ships are friendships.

When you were growing up, it seemed so easy to make friends. You both used to played Neopets and Poke mon and laughed about farts, and that was the foundation of your friendship. But when you grow up, it just doesn't work the same in how you make friends. And when you really sum it up, there are only a few ways in making friendships.


Way 1:  History/Circumstances

You grew up together from childhood, or awkward pre-teen years, high school, etc. My best friend is a prime example of this. We both agree that if we met each other in this present day we could be friends but we most likely wouldn't be best friends. It's our history that really brought us together, and we're lucky that it just kept working out. 12 years on going and still no real fight yet. haha

Way 2: Experience

You went through something together and it brought you closer, like a missions trip or you get stuck in the middle of no where. Either way, you have an experience together.

Way 3: X Factor

There's chemistry between you two, like peas in a pod you just click, you hit it off. This one doesn't happen, but when it does it's pretty frickin' awesome to have that connection.


Way 4: Attractiveness (My friend actually brought this one up)

You're attracted to each other and want to get to know each other. I think this pertains more to the opposite gender. But maybe you start off attracted to each other, hang out and realize that you just work as friends. Or you actually date. haha In my case I don't know how often this one has worked, because i've never really been attracted to my close guy friends.

But there you go, these are the ways to build a ship.

Lipstick

So i've finally have taken a little step further in the grown up woman work and purchased a couple of lipsticks. I bought a Coral & a bright red one labeled "Moulin Rouge." It's actually pretty fun to play with and adds some pop to any simple outfit. I definitely think every girl should own a lipstick to add some jazz and a rockin' pair of heels that make them feel like they own the place.

I'm still more of a lip balm and gloss kinda girl, so all this color is kinda crazy for me but I do definitely want to experiment with lipstick some more. I'll probably only wear the lipstick when i'm going out at night once in awhile, but I decided to try out the coral one in the daytime today. With my leather jacket, lipstick and pale skin, I kinda felt like a bad @$$ goth girl. Not really the look i'm going for but whatever, that's cool I suppose....hahaha  Anyways, I snapped a shot of myself with my phone while I was waiting for my friend in the car.

Kind of a lame update on my life...but at least you get to see my face? ^___________^ hahaha Ok as you can tell, i'm still as lame as ever.

Hair

Why can't my hair do something like that? I want to try that out someday, but too bad i'm too noob.